Had a really wonderful celebration this year on 15th November with Dan and the kids this year. Perhaps the kids are bigger so we had more time to enjoy and less time to tend to their nees. They are growing up..but a bit too fast! Happy that they are older but yet miss their baby-ish innocence. Ironic!
Really appreciate Dan for planning everything. On the actual day, the girls were home in the morning as school has closed for them the day before. So was really nice to have a nice cake with candles and home-made cards from them. All the months of naughtiness and me feeling like literally screaming my lungs away were made up for with their little cards. And really appreciate Dan for the romantic gesture of giving me flowers which are not his usual style as he feels they are a waste of money.


The most memorable part was indulging in really nice food thanks to Dan. We are not rich and just go to these kind of places at a whim so it was a really nice treat to have celebrated our wedding anniversary with High Tea Buffet at the Cafe L'Espresso at Goodwood Park Hotel. The food was really nice! The ambience was good.The girls got to enjoy it as Jedi was in school. Despite the girls being there, we still had a nice time talking and catching up with each other away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
The next day was a really nice surprise as Dan brought us back to the place at Marriott Hotel where he had proposed and the kids were told of our wedding proposal story and got to eat in all the usual forbidden foods like lots of deserts and goodies and sweets! We don't usually splurge on such places so it was a really nice treat!

Most importantly, I feel blessed to have such a wonderful husband for the past 9 years. Without his support and encouragement I couldn't have been a SAHM. I couldn't have coped with raising the three kids without any external help if he had not been such a hands-on dad. I used to feel sorry for myself and question how come others had so much help with their kids but I had none? We had no help at all in terms of a consistent help with the kids all these years and it was just me or Dan. I used to feel so bitter about it but I have learnt to let it go and I am happy that the kids are who they are today because of our guidance. When the kids were sick, we were also on our own and had no one to rely on. Especially when Dan had to travel was tough for me as once again I was alone to fend for myself without anyone I could call for help as my parents were overseas. It was tough and frustrating at times but I had Dan's steadiness and reassurance to pull me through those tough times. I am thankful for a Godly husband too who prays for me and the kids and makes it a point to daily devotion and weekly family devotion time. Am thankful that he always think about the family first and everything he does is for us.
We may not be rich and live an extravagant lifestyle of branded goods and fast cars but I believe we are rich in the love and unity that we share as a family. This birthday, I am glad for the family ties that have helped me all these years, from Dan to my parents and brother to my dear Aunty (Ah Kor). The Lord has been faithful to us all these years and we continue to commit our marriage and our children to Him to guide us in the years ahead where there may be valleys and mountains to test out faith. In all things we give thanks!
Blessed Anniversary Dear! Am blessed!