Keziah is beginning to smile and to us its the sweetest ones! Caught some little smiles of her at about 9 weeks...
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
My Sweetie Smiley Pie
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Brudders and Sistas!
Keziah is now abt 7 weeks old! Time flies yet it feels like a couple of months have passed despite the hectic days and adjustments.
Things have calmed down a bit. Keziah has been a really good baby so far. Started her on "Contented Little Baby" routine early and she has surprisingly settled in really well. Amongst the 3 kiddies, she has been the most merciful to us! She wakes up either once in the morning at abt 5am plus or at times sleeps right up till 7am having had her last feed at 10.30pm the night before. Especially for me, I need the rest or else I have no energy handling the kids in the day. Dan says she is very "zhe dong"! Praying hard she stays this way...
Jedi and Krisa have adjusted better too. Thankfully they don't wake when she cries in the early morning and sleep soundly. I realize that flexibility is something I am learning to be more of. By nature I am quite 'rigid' in terms of wanting to do certain things at certain times but I realize with 3 kids I have to be realistic and FLEXIBLE!! So the timing to teach the kids their reading and writing gets shifted to an hour later so I don't have to feel like an octopus feeding Keziah with one hand and teaching them with the other.
Learning to let go on tidiness is another thing I am learning to do. Kids need the space to mess up and have fun. It all gets cleared at the end of the day and so far they will clear their toys when they are done. So letting them play with playdough and puzzles while I feed Keziah is a great way to see that they are having fun and yet still in my view from getting into mischief unsupervised. Little hands and little minds busy also helps to keep the squabbles down a little...
But they have also grown to be closer playmates in the process of their fighting. Their squabbles still drive me nuts but their affection for each other is also very endearing to see. We are glad too that they adore Keziah. Perhaps she is still cot-confined and is not snatching their toys yet....
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
One Month Old
Baby Keziah turned 1 month old on 11th August 2009. We decided not to have a one month celebration unlike the older two due to the flu outbreak situation. And the thought of clearing up after the party made us decide to wait till she turns 1! So we just had a simple one among the five of us by just spending family time together over the weekend. I feel a little guilty though as the older two had their full month celebrations.
At one month, Baby Keziah is really the easiest amongst the three kids. Perhaps its also because its our third one. She has more or less settled into her routine and she wakes up only once at night at about 3 or 4 am and goes back to sleep till 7am in the morning. I hope she stays this way though!
She has a BIG appetite too and takes abut 41/2 ounces (100 - 120ml) at each feed! So I guess when her tummy is happy she sleeps better. Chubby cheeks coming along too!
The two kids continue to adore her and their current squabble is who has the best "prime" spot around the cot...in terms of who has the best view of seeing baby's face! Drives me nuts too! As they will be squishing and squeezing each other and arguing!Or when I am burping her they would fight over seeing her face on my shoulder and the one who is at the spot that her head is turned away from feels like the loser! Kids can fight about anything!
Friday, August 7, 2009
Thank You Mummy!
This post is dedicated to my dearest Mummy!
Thanks Mummy for coming back for 3 weeks to help me in my last stages of preggie-ness and for buying the food and ensuring that I still have food delivered to me even after you left on the 25th of July!
Thanks for playing with the kids blocks and hide and seek! They remember you for it!! And playing with the little toy hammer and pretending its a monster hiding in the car. Krisa plays with it and uses it to scare Jedi!
Thanks for being my being the first to see me the minute I came out of the delivery ward. Your presence just sitting next to me was so comforting. Enjoyed talking and chatting in the hospital without the tow older ones around! 
Thanks for buying me my favourite fruit tarts from Delifrance!! And ALL the yummy goodies so that I can have a good tea during my confinement. Unfortunately most of it got gobbled up by the greedy NANNY!
Thanks for praying for me and showering me with concern and even offering about the helper. Hee! It feels nice to be worried about at times.
Most of all thanks for being my Mummy. A mother's love is truly priceless. Now that I am a mother too, I am beginning to understand how deep a mother's love is. It loves even the most unlovable of us at times.
I love you Mummy! I miss you and Papa and Jon and hope to see you all soon.
Aunty Pu
Aunty Pu was a "replacement" we found from an agency to come and help to cook the food for me for the rest of confinement. She would come for four hours a day from 11am to 3pm and she would cook and help me with the household chores.
I always think the Lord has ways of ministering to me and encouraging me. Through our conversations, I learnt that she was a mother of three grown children. She would encourage me that it may be tough and hectic now but it will pass and can be done step by step. Enjoyed our lunch sessions together where she would share her parenting stories filled with little excerpts of how she dealt with her children when the misbehaved and the importance of discipline.
She was a great help during the remaining days of my confinement and her motherly ways made me really miss my own mummy alot!!
Thanks Aunty Pu! God Bless you!
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Adjusting to Adjustments
Having three kids is a blessing. But there are so much adjustments too!
For me I'm adjusting to juggling my day from dividing my time to half to see to the two older kids to also include Baby Keziah's feeds, baths etc. Feel as if I am running a marathon at times as my pockets of free time last time are now used to see to the baby. I miss my afternoon snoozes and internet time and my TV time at night! hee! But I guess all these has to take a back seat for awhile till baby gets a little older and more adjusted to her routine.
Our two kids are adjusting too. Jedi misses the time I have to play with him and build blocks or tracks and play house with Krisa. I still try but the time is so much less that I feel bad that I have so little time with them.
Dan always reminds me of Progression. Things will get better. Kids grow. The Baby will too and all this madness and rushing from one task to another will be less as she gets older. Its after all the early days of babyhood again.
But I draw encouragement that the kids adore Baby Keziah. They are my little helpers especially Krisa, to help me put her clothes in the laundry and fetch items such as diapers and cream and little things I need here and there.
I draw encouragement that my hubby is there to help me every night when he is back home and is there to pray for me for strength when I feel down and totally drained. And for getting someone to help me for these few weeks to cook and clean everyday for a few hours.
I draw encouragement that my parents call my every day and ask how they can keep me in prayer even though they are so far away. And for my dear Aunt who is always there to avail her help with the kids so that Dan and I can take a break.
And I draw encouragement that Baby K is slowly settling into her routine. This is the first time I have put any of our kids on the routine so early as I usually put it after the first month. But after the nasty Nanny left, I decided to just implement it. Blessing in disguise actually as the earlier I start the less adjustment later.
Most importantly, I must remember to draw strength from the Lord. I can't do it in my strength as I feel so pooped at the end of the day! Step by Step...and most importantly, One day at a time...
Thursday, July 23, 2009
The Chronicles of Nar-nny: The Confinement Nanny from HELL (by DAN)
Day 1: Prelude
Expectations are low, since we understand that people need to adjust to new environments
Day 2: True Colours are hard to hide
Nanny fell sick, coughing!!!
For fear of baby contracting it, I brought her to the doctor
She claimed that this happens when she takes confinement food, but we bought lots of other food – fresh food and canned food
Nanny broke the remaining part of our kettle cover…and conveniently & quietly threw it away.
She coughs loudly in the middle of the night, and slept through the night, leaving Evan to do the night feeds and diaper changing.
Day 3: Reality Strikes
The kitchen floor is dirtier with her mopping. The kitchen sink and surrounding areas riddled with cockroach and ant baits – pieces of vegetables, unused garlic & ginger bits and even meat pieces!
To add on more stress to the adjustments to the new baby, nanny told Evan that she will turn into a “yellow-faced hag” if she don’t get a maid. Not a very helpful thing to say when a mummy just gave birth and recovering at home.
She is always the first one in bed.. but we initially thought it to be ok since she is doing the night feeds… She snores loudly, and grunts and lets out a loud yawn…
Day 4: Liar Liar
Evan found a cut on the baby’s finger. She thought I was the one who did it, and commented to the nanny that I cut the nails too deep. Later that day, the nanny confessed to Evan it was her who did it. She used HER OWN adult nail clipper – the big ones you would use to cut your toenails. Wahbiang!!
She helped herself to the longan & red dates tea that my mum brewed for Evan. When Evan noticed it, then she quickly said that she wanted to have a drink of it. She took a full cup. Told my mum it's too "thick" (and therefore too "warm" for her) Asked my mum not to put longans in it, make more of the drink and dilute it....so that she can drink as well.
She also helped herself to Evan’s fish and green papaya soup.
My fridge started having water droplets and the freezer started growing icicles.. ... obviously she didn't close the fridge doors properly.
Day 5: Ask and It Shall be Given
This slogan goes true to nanny. Never fails to ask for favourite food lists and gets my mum-in-law or mum to buy for her – mee pok, chee cheong fun, beancurd, bee hoon, etc.
Massive bread eater ..up to 4 slices at one time. Also ate up most of the chocolate bread that mother-in-law bought for Evan.
Nanny is not “paiseh” when comes to food, eats quite a lot, we have to ask her to set aside the food from ours.
Day 6: Liar Liar II
She startled us in the early hours of the morning mopping “loudly” the living room.. the mop head is knocking against every possible thing that has legs – table, chairs, etc (the kiddies are still asleep, and you wouldn’t want them to be woken up).
I bought a brand new standing fan worth S$179 for the baby’s room and the nanny. Tested it myself and it was powerful for that price. Evan and I used the older one for ourselves.
Day 7: Humidity beyond words
Evan realised that the fan is ONLY blowing towards (not oscillating) the nanny. Asked her the reason, and she complained that she is very warm and that the baby doesn’t need it and that natural ventilation will suffice. Evan felt the baby’s skin – it was sticky – obviously warm. She requested for us to buy her a table fan!!! Mind you, the fan I just bought is BRAND NEW!
Decided to instead allocate 2 fans in the room, one for nanny, and one for baby. Really ultimate!
Day 8:
Miracle Aircon
Our family does not use aircon at all, and the main aircon (located in the master bedroom) is switched off at all times. In “no particular reason”, the aircon in the baby’s room started working! The main switch is turned on, the remote control in the room’s cupboard was meddled with… The main switch was left untouched and forgotten by the kiddies many many months back, and the remote control is out of reach to them… Nanny says she was also puzzled as to why this strange thing happens.
Knock Knock, who's there?
While we are trying to put the 2 older kids to sleep in their room and they are settled down and ready to sleep in the dark quiet room, nanny barged in to tell Evan to drink her tea and soup. She did it at that time so that she can go to sleep, instead of having to drag herself out of bed to remind Evan later.
Day 9: Happenings
Five Loaves…
Nanny ate 3 pieces of pandan cake, 4 kaya buns, half a swiss roll. Doesn’t take the normal NTUC Fairprice wholemeal bread in one day. This excludes the normal breakfast, lunch and dinner meals that she cooks for Evan.
Wishlists
Weather is hot. Started ransacking fridge on her own. Evan asked what’s she is doing…she is looking for pandan leaves and either green or red beans – we don’t have it. Asked us to buy them so that she can cook it for herself (since she is warm)...
Asked my mother-in-law whether can buy “beancurd” for her to eat
Asked if we can subscribe to Chinese newspapers so that pass to her to read.
Soap bar on Krisa’s Mcdonald’s happy meal toy
I accidently spilled Jedi’s water bottle, went into the toilet to pick up the mop to soak up the water. To my bewilderment, I saw what was her soap bar on Krisa’s favourite Happy Meal Hotcakes Tray Toy! She must have simply picked it up from the floor conveniently while the kids are playing. Told her that I can simply give her a plastic container or something if she just asked for it.
“Is that my baby, or yours?”
The baby is put back in the baby cot after night feed, pooed at 10plus…. and hiccupping… Evan couldn’t take it anymore and at 11.10pm went into the baby room to change the diaper.. Nanny who was moments ago snoring..woke up and ask Evan in mandarin “the baby pooed hah?”… and didn’t even bother to change the diaper before and helped Evan then.
Day 10: We call it Quits
We decided to cease using the nanny. Told her about it.
Nanny started packing her stuff. She ask if I can send her to Yishun…. (huh?)
She also asked me to give her an angpao !!
(UPDATE)
Day 1 after Nanny left: Revelation!
- Nanny previously told my mum in law to buy some expensive ginseng herbs which is meant for "cool". It can't be for Evan..so guess who it is for?
- Nanny also asked my mum in law to buy CORDYCEPS (expensive! S$346.20) - but just realised that they are not meant for confinement!! Didn't remember eating any as well.... One bunch is missing from the container.
- Baby girl's private part had not been cleaned properly!! There is alot of caked yellowship residue on the inner parts!!!
Expectations are low, since we understand that people need to adjust to new environments
Day 2: True Colours are hard to hide
Nanny fell sick, coughing!!!
For fear of baby contracting it, I brought her to the doctor
She claimed that this happens when she takes confinement food, but we bought lots of other food – fresh food and canned food
Nanny broke the remaining part of our kettle cover…and conveniently & quietly threw it away.
She coughs loudly in the middle of the night, and slept through the night, leaving Evan to do the night feeds and diaper changing.
Day 3: Reality Strikes
The kitchen floor is dirtier with her mopping. The kitchen sink and surrounding areas riddled with cockroach and ant baits – pieces of vegetables, unused garlic & ginger bits and even meat pieces!
To add on more stress to the adjustments to the new baby, nanny told Evan that she will turn into a “yellow-faced hag” if she don’t get a maid. Not a very helpful thing to say when a mummy just gave birth and recovering at home.
She is always the first one in bed.. but we initially thought it to be ok since she is doing the night feeds… She snores loudly, and grunts and lets out a loud yawn…
Day 4: Liar Liar
Evan found a cut on the baby’s finger. She thought I was the one who did it, and commented to the nanny that I cut the nails too deep. Later that day, the nanny confessed to Evan it was her who did it. She used HER OWN adult nail clipper – the big ones you would use to cut your toenails. Wahbiang!!
She helped herself to the longan & red dates tea that my mum brewed for Evan. When Evan noticed it, then she quickly said that she wanted to have a drink of it. She took a full cup. Told my mum it's too "thick" (and therefore too "warm" for her) Asked my mum not to put longans in it, make more of the drink and dilute it....so that she can drink as well.
She also helped herself to Evan’s fish and green papaya soup.
My fridge started having water droplets and the freezer started growing icicles.. ... obviously she didn't close the fridge doors properly.
Day 5: Ask and It Shall be Given
This slogan goes true to nanny. Never fails to ask for favourite food lists and gets my mum-in-law or mum to buy for her – mee pok, chee cheong fun, beancurd, bee hoon, etc.
Massive bread eater ..up to 4 slices at one time. Also ate up most of the chocolate bread that mother-in-law bought for Evan.
Nanny is not “paiseh” when comes to food, eats quite a lot, we have to ask her to set aside the food from ours.
Day 6: Liar Liar II
She startled us in the early hours of the morning mopping “loudly” the living room.. the mop head is knocking against every possible thing that has legs – table, chairs, etc (the kiddies are still asleep, and you wouldn’t want them to be woken up).
I bought a brand new standing fan worth S$179 for the baby’s room and the nanny. Tested it myself and it was powerful for that price. Evan and I used the older one for ourselves.
Day 7: Humidity beyond words
Evan realised that the fan is ONLY blowing towards (not oscillating) the nanny. Asked her the reason, and she complained that she is very warm and that the baby doesn’t need it and that natural ventilation will suffice. Evan felt the baby’s skin – it was sticky – obviously warm. She requested for us to buy her a table fan!!! Mind you, the fan I just bought is BRAND NEW!
Decided to instead allocate 2 fans in the room, one for nanny, and one for baby. Really ultimate!
Day 8:
Miracle Aircon
Our family does not use aircon at all, and the main aircon (located in the master bedroom) is switched off at all times. In “no particular reason”, the aircon in the baby’s room started working! The main switch is turned on, the remote control in the room’s cupboard was meddled with… The main switch was left untouched and forgotten by the kiddies many many months back, and the remote control is out of reach to them… Nanny says she was also puzzled as to why this strange thing happens.
Knock Knock, who's there?
While we are trying to put the 2 older kids to sleep in their room and they are settled down and ready to sleep in the dark quiet room, nanny barged in to tell Evan to drink her tea and soup. She did it at that time so that she can go to sleep, instead of having to drag herself out of bed to remind Evan later.
Day 9: Happenings
Five Loaves…
Nanny ate 3 pieces of pandan cake, 4 kaya buns, half a swiss roll. Doesn’t take the normal NTUC Fairprice wholemeal bread in one day. This excludes the normal breakfast, lunch and dinner meals that she cooks for Evan.
Wishlists
Weather is hot. Started ransacking fridge on her own. Evan asked what’s she is doing…she is looking for pandan leaves and either green or red beans – we don’t have it. Asked us to buy them so that she can cook it for herself (since she is warm)...
Asked my mother-in-law whether can buy “beancurd” for her to eat
Asked if we can subscribe to Chinese newspapers so that pass to her to read.
Soap bar on Krisa’s Mcdonald’s happy meal toy
I accidently spilled Jedi’s water bottle, went into the toilet to pick up the mop to soak up the water. To my bewilderment, I saw what was her soap bar on Krisa’s favourite Happy Meal Hotcakes Tray Toy! She must have simply picked it up from the floor conveniently while the kids are playing. Told her that I can simply give her a plastic container or something if she just asked for it.
“Is that my baby, or yours?”
The baby is put back in the baby cot after night feed, pooed at 10plus…. and hiccupping… Evan couldn’t take it anymore and at 11.10pm went into the baby room to change the diaper.. Nanny who was moments ago snoring..woke up and ask Evan in mandarin “the baby pooed hah?”… and didn’t even bother to change the diaper before and helped Evan then.
Day 10: We call it Quits
We decided to cease using the nanny. Told her about it.
Nanny started packing her stuff. She ask if I can send her to Yishun…. (huh?)
She also asked me to give her an angpao !!
(UPDATE)
Day 1 after Nanny left: Revelation!
- Nanny previously told my mum in law to buy some expensive ginseng herbs which is meant for "cool". It can't be for Evan..so guess who it is for?
- Nanny also asked my mum in law to buy CORDYCEPS (expensive! S$346.20) - but just realised that they are not meant for confinement!! Didn't remember eating any as well.... One bunch is missing from the container.
- Baby girl's private part had not been cleaned properly!! There is alot of caked yellowship residue on the inner parts!!!
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